You will be gently tapping these points on your own body. You may
use the left or right hand side of the body, with either hand, flowing through
the points from the collarbone point, down the body to the wrist and hand, then
up to the crown of the head and down the face. This pattern of points is known
as a round of EFT.
Don't worry about getting them in perfect order. EFT is a very
flexible and forgiving process. Because you are wired with meridians, some
major, others minor, all connected at the top of the head, EFT will work even
if you skip a point, add in extra points or do them in a different order. This
process helps old feelings and memories burn through cleaner and much faster
than you may be used to so relax, and enjoy the experience of
this self-healing experiment.
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Start out by massaging a tender spot under your
collarbone and back towards your shoulder at the top of your pectoral muscle. This helps you get in alignment for the
session. Give yourself some deep slow breaths.
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Switch to
the next meridian point on the chart after 5-7 gentle taps with your
fingertips.
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Use 2-3 fingers at each point to cover more
space and stimulate the right spot.
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Move to the
next bit of the script below, only as you feel ready.
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Make sure to
BREATHE deeply, feeling free to make sounds during exhalations.
Tap
on all the points indicated in the illustration, flowing from the collarbone
points downward through the hand points and then up to the head. Repeat the
words in the script below allowing yourself to really connect with the part of
you that may feel these or other feelings.
Give yourself permission
to go over this slowly, taking time to feel for just a moment a small sample of
the stress or feeling that you have been carrying about these issues.
EFT
Healing Session for Living Now
Collarbone
points:
Even though I feel numb about facing a possible environmental
catastrophe,
I love and accept myself!
Repeat phrase 3 times and BREATHE.
Sternum
point:
I forgive myself for checking out, or numbing myself to it in
order to survive right now.
Lower front
of ribs:
Even though I am numb and
have suppressed my feelings,
I love and accept myself!
Under arm on
side of ribs:
I forgive myself for feeling numb.
BREATHE
Inside of
wrist:
I feel numb
Side of the
thumb:
I feel too much!
I feel too much and I feel numb at the same time!
BREATHE
Side of
middle finger:
Even though I feel much too sensitive and very numb at the same
time,
I love and accept myself, my body my personality, and the thought
that that I feel too much and must keep myself numb to protect myself.
.
Back of hand
between 3rd & 4th knuckle:
This need for protection that keeps me numb and shut down,
Side of
pinky:
I
allow myself to be aware of my true feelings and to be safe at the same time.
Crown of
head: It is ok for
me to feel numb and aware at the same time.
Tap and feel
both states simultaneously.
*Repeat this
section until numbness melts away making notes of memories to clean up later
with EFT, about times when you had to go numb in order to survive.
Collarbone
points:
Even though I feel overwhelmed when I realize we are facing
environmental catastrophes,
I love and
accept my self as I am in this moment.
Even if I don't really love myself,
I forgive myself for not
being able to fully love myself right now.
Repeat phrases 3 times and BREATHE.
Sternum
point:
I am open to releasing
this overwhelm about our environment from the bottom of my precious heart.
Lower front
of ribs:
Even though I am actually
very overwhelmed about this, I love and accept myself!
Under arm on
side of ribs:
I forgive myself for feeling completely totally overwhelmed!
BREATHE
Inside of
wrist:
Feeling overwhelmed.
Side of
index finger
overwhelmed!
BREATHE
Side of
middle finger:
I love and accept myself no matter how overwhelmed I am!
*Repeat with more rounds until overwhelm is neutralized.
Back of hand between 3rd & 4th knuckle: Even though I feel helpless, I love
and accept myself! This helpless feeling,
Side of
pinky
I feel so helpless; I don't know how one person can really make a
difference!
BREATHE
Side of
hand:
I am releasing my
resistance to letting go of feeling helpless to change things.
Crown of
head:
Even though I am afraid
of letting go of my helplessness because then I would have to do something
bold, I love and accept myself.
Beginning of
eyebrow:
It's ok that part of me feels helpless and part of me feels bold
at the same time.
(Feel both
things simultaneously in your body)
Temple/Side
of eye:
I am releasing these feelings from my ___________________ (body
parts), my mind and heart, easily and spontaneously. Whether it releases from
my ___________________ (body parts), or not, I love and accept myself anyway!
BREATHE
Front of
cheekbone:
I am open to the possibility of feeling empowered while allowing
my heart, mind, body and spirit to feel supported now!
Under nose:
I am supported by deep universal love and nature's amazing ability
to rebalance itself.
Under lips:
I am supported by like-minded others who are working to improve
things for the collective all over the world. I am supported by life's longing
to be in harmony with nature and itself through us.
Collarbone
points:
Even if I feel _______________ about this, I accept who I
am, my body, my personality and the feeling I have of _________________.
BREATHE
Sternum
point:
I am still a
good person.
Lower front
of ribs:
I forgive myself for continuing to feel________________.
Under arm on
side of ribs:
I am releasing the feeling of __________________ from my, body,
personality, heart and spirit now.
Inside of
wrist:
This remaining feeling in my ________________ (body parts).
Side of
thumb:
I am releasing this from my (body parts) ___________________
easily and spontaneously. Whether it releases completely from my (body
parts) _____________________or not I
love and accept myself right now, exactly as I am!
(Repeat
doing rounds until these feelings completely clear.)
BREATHE
Side of the
index finger:
I forgive my mom and dad for feeling the way they did, saying
what they said, doing what they did, and not knowing how to do things
differently.
I forgive them for any way they contributed to my self-defeating
thoughts about the world right now. I am restoring my own ability to take
action and to feel empowered by forgiving them for being who they were back
then.
Side of
middle finger:
I forgive myself for modeling old familial behavior patterns to
others; perhaps even my own family and children.
Back of hand
between 3rd & 4th knuckle:
I forgive my family and their family and their family's family for
going along with things as they were, in order to survive. I am restoring my ability to feel courageous
and strong.
BREATHE
Side of
pinky:
I am deeply and completely forgiving
(ask yourself who you blame and fill in the blank) __________________ for not being able
to give me the ________________, that I needed to thrive.
(Repeat as
many times as necessary. Remember you are creating new energetic wealth with
each deep wave of forgiveness, so go for the gold!)
Side of hand:
I love and accept myself and I am open to releasing my fears about
living now!
Crown of
head:
Even thought I have been afraid of living and afraid of dying,
I love and accept myself, my body, my personality and the feelings of fear I
have about living and dying.
BREATHE
Beginning of
eyebrow:
Even if I just want to curl up and die, I love and accept myself!
Temple/Side
of cheekbone:
I accept how much I want to quit living and just give up!
Front of
cheekbone:
Just wanting to give up, QUIT and die!
Under nose:
Wanting to die,
Under lips:
and being afraid of death at the same time,
BREATHE
Collarbone
points:
I profoundly forgive myself for being so afraid of
living and dying at the same time!
Sternum
point:
Even thought I am afraid I won't be myself if I don't feel both of
these fears regularly,
I love and accept myself, and these feelings exactly as they
are.
Lower front
of ribs:
My fear of fully living life, and my fear of the total
annihilation of death,
Under arm on
side of ribs:
This fear of life and death that I feel in my (body parts)
___________________...
BREATHE
Inside of wrist:
I am releasing this terrifying fear from deep within my body, my
heart, my mind, my body and my blood line!
Feel both
fears simultaneously.
*Repeat this
section of feelings until they are neutralized. Take note of early memories or
beliefs associated with this, which may need to be cleared with EFT later.
Side of
thumb:
Even though I feel absolutely grief-stricken about our global
environmental situation, I love and accept myself my, my body my personality
and my feelings of grief about my world's environmental situation.
BREATHE
Side of index finger:
Feeling so grief-stricken and sad when
I let myself feel and know what's really going on!
Side of middle finger:
I love and accept myself anyway, grief and all.
I accept this grief and sadness exactly as it is!
BREATHE
Back of hand
between 3rd & 4th knuckle:
This deep grief, I can feel it in my __________________.
Side of pinky:
I accept who I am even if I feel these sad feelings of grief in my
____________for the rest of my life and beyond.
Side of hand:
I am releasing my resistance to feeling
my grief and sadness now. I am processing it with my breath lovingly and
completely. It's now safe for me to
feel what I have been afraid to feel.
Crown of head:
Even if I am really broken-hearted about my world right now, I
love and accept myself, and accept these feeling exactly as they are, and as
they have been.
Beginning of eyebrow:
These feelings. (actually feel this for a moment)
Temple/Side of cheekbone:
I am willing to let go of the deep grief and sorrow that I have
been harboring, no matter how justified it is. I am retrieving my life-force
credits so
I can do something more creative with my energy now.
BREATHE
Front of cheekbone:
Even though I feel terrified about global warming and wars,
I love and accept myself, my body, my personality and the fact I
feel terrified about global warming and wars.
Under nose:
I feel it my in my (body parts) ___________________.
I accept these feelings of terror exactly as they are.
Under lips:
I can stay terrified for as long as it truly serves me, my
life, my family or my world.
I am open to releasing this remaining terror from every part of my
being.
I am open to releasing it in order to get my life-force back!
Repeat this
section of feelings until they are neutralized.
*Take note
of early memories or beliefs associated with this,
that may
need to be cleared with EFT later.
BREATHE
Collarbone points:
Even if I feel outraged, irate and furious at my country and other
countries, for the pain, trauma and suffering that is being caused for so many
people,
I love and accept myself.
Sternum
point:
I am open to releasing
this outrage and fury from my heart, mind, body, personality and spirit to get
my life force back.
Lower front of ribs:
This outrage. (connect with this feeling for a moment)
This red hot anger and rage,
Under arm on side of ribs:
Rage and fury that I feel in my (body parts)
___________________...
BREATHE
Inside of wrist:
I love and respect myself rage and all!
Side of thumb:
I am releasing my totally justified outrage and fury so I can be
more productive and alive now.
Side of index finger:
This remaining rage and anger is being loved as it is. It can stay
as long as it truly serves me, my life and my family.
BREATHE
Side of middle finger:
This anger, which affects my __________________...
Back of hand
between 3rd & 4th knuckle:
I am open to forgiving myself for using rage and anger as my
motivation.
I can use a more powerful and positive emotions to motivate me
now, like courage, love, and passion for Creation.
Side of pinky:
Even though the people who control these governments and make
these horrific decisions may not deserve or ask for my forgiveness,
I am open to releasing my anger just to get my life
force back!
BREATHE
Side of hand:
Even thought I am totally justified in my anger,
I love and accept myself.
Crown of head:
This justified feeling. To let go of this anger does not mean that
their actions are okay with me, it just means that I am upgrading my energy
flow right now.
Beginning of eyebrow:
I am entitled to be enraged for as long as I need to be.
I am open to the possibility of releasing this anger and rage in
order to get my life-force back.
BREATHE
Temple/Side of cheekbone:
It does not mean it is right, what they have done, if I release
this anger.
It means I am feeling strong in my commitment to my own and
other's well-being.
Front of cheekbone:
My well-being is within with me now. I am in control of my life
energy now.
I am of greater service when I am centered and connected to my
heart.
This is where my true power is.
Under nose:
I am open to possibly forgiving the people who are so
short-sighted and greedy that they are driving the planet over the brink for
political and financial gain.
BREATHE
Under lips:
Not
because they deserve it,
or asked for my forgivingness,
but
because I desire to be powerful and healthy in my body again!
BREATHE
Collarbone points:
I am forgiving the
narrow-mindedness of these greedy and fearful people.
BREATHE
Sternum
point:
I am forgiving myself for any shortsightedness or greed I have had
as well.
BREATHE
Lower front of ribs:
My heart is transmuting the chaotic energy of destruction with the
purifying fire of love, for all of us who are learning about life and love this
way.
BREATHE
Under arm on side of ribs:
With my life-force I am now creating a safe and loving environment
for present and future generations who need a safe, healthy place to live and
love.
BREATHE
Inside of wrist:
I am open to the possibility of forgiving them for not fully
comprehending what they have been doing to us, the earth or their children or
their children's children.
Side of index finger:
This healthy life force gives me strength to act from a place of
true power.
I am restoring my life force now!
BREATHE
Side of middle finger:
I forgive them for being so afraid of losing power.
I forgive my self for being afraid of loosing power.
Back of hand
between 3rd & 4th knuckle:
I forgive them for being so afraid that they desire to have
ultimate control of all people and resources.
Side of pinky:
I forgive their parents and all past generations for teaching them
that there was not enough land, resources or love from the Divine for everyone
on earth.
BREATHE
Side of hand:
I forgive all parents and all past generations for teaching us
that there was not enough.
I forgive them for teaching us to fight to be ultra-competitive.
I forgive them for teaching us to prove we are powerful over
others in order to be loved and respected by our families and our societies.
Crown of head:
I forgive my parents, their parents, and all past generations
whose blood flows in my veins for not knowing a better way to live peacefully
and sustainably, together.
Beginning of eyebrow:
I release, from shame and guilt, all families who have
participated in this, including my own, for not giving the love, nurturing and balance
that everyone really needed.
BREATHE
Temple/Side of cheekbone:
I am creating now that we all become loving and compassionate
adult human beings.
I am starting with myself.
Front of cheekbone:
I forgive my parents for doing anything similar to me or my
siblings.
Under nose:
I for give myself for any neglect or abuse that
I have passed on as a result of my own experiences with my family.
BREATHE
Under lips:
I allow myself a larger, more compassionate perspective now.
Collarbone points:
I am releasing this pattern of psychological and physical violence
from my nervous system,
Sternum
point:
my deepest heart,
Lower front of ribs:
my mind,
Under lips:
my personality,
Collarbone points:
my body, my life, and all other dimensions of my being now.
BREATHE
Sternum
point:
I am opening my heart to
the possibility that I am loving and accepting myself and my people back into
natural balance now.
Lower front of ribs:
I can do this. I am doing this.
Under arm on side of ribs:
This
is how I am living now.
BREATHE
Inside of wrist:
I am creating this for myself and my world.
This is my gift and my
service to myself, my family and humanity.
Side of thumb:
I am freeing myself to act with courage to bring positive
change now.
I am guided by love.
Side of index finger:
I am loved and supported more than I realized.
I am able to help now.
BREATHE
Side of middle finger:
I am able to help. I am able to ask for help as I go.
Back of hand
between 3rd & 4th knuckle:
I am actually able to help and ask to receive help now.
Side of pinky:
I am to be useful in some new creative ways now.
BREATHE
Side of hand:
I allow myself to be shown how now.
I am asking for guidance from the Source of love itself.
Crown of head:
I am willing to know how to help myself,
my family, my friends and community.
I am ready to receive and act on this guidance.
Beginning of eyebrow:
I am open to the possibility of helping my country to realign its
heart and soul.
BREATHE
Temple/side of cheekbone:
I am guided by the power of love eternally.
Front of cheekbone:
I am always guided by love?
Under nose:
I am truly guided by love...
BREATHE
Under lips:
I am an active and willing vessel for love and life to flow
through,
I am filled with gratitude for this sacred opportunity to serve
with everything I have.
Collarbone points:
I bring healing to my environment wherever I happen to be.
I am facilitating the flow of love, health, peace and freedom.
Sternum
point:
I am opening my heart to
the possibility that I love myself and my earth back into an honorable balance
now.
Lower front of ribs:
I bring deep healing to myself and my people.
Under arm on side of ribs:
This is natural and easy for me now.
BREATHE
Inside of wrist:
I am empowered to take swift, positive actions in my life.
I inspire my circle of influence as I clear these old thoughts and
feelings from my being.
This is my soul's true purpose right now!
BREATHE
To conclude the session:
Tap all over
your body and say loving, supportive statements to yourself for a few
moments. For example: I am doing this, this is happening. I
really am a powerful part of the solution.
I am following my heart's intuitive truth
now!
I am able to
be useful, empowered and to feel good about life again!
*Sometimes a specific phrase someone said to you needs to be
replayed mentally while tapping.
Sometimes it's a memory slowed down frame by frame until the charge has
been released in each segment. Keep exploring with this simple tool and you
will discover how much suffering you can alleviate for yourself and others by
applying it to anything that feels less than wonderful in your life.
The changes I get to watch for a living by practicing the art of
unconditional love, give me tremendous joy, deep peace and a real sense of
helping to improve the situation on our planet. This is good for my body and my
sense of thrival. I have personally seen EFT stop bleeding instantly,
heal swelling as it was occurring, end nightmares, completely cure PTSD and turn
around very bad situations. I see this thought technology as an invaluable
first aid tool for the changing times. This way of thinking opens minds, hearts
and the energy of Creation. It is from
this place that we are then able to imagine and choose to create a more loving,
healthy way of living for all people.
As we are evolving, we are creating our world based upon new
choices spawned from love, compassion and forgiveness for the mess we all find
our planet and our human family in.
When you realize that the people who hurt you or your country, were hurt
by others, who were hurt by others, who were hurt by others, who were hurt and
abused by others, the desire to stay angry or punitive starts to melt and one
sees it as generational, and not extremely personal.
We begin to
choose that it might as well change with us, here and now.
To me learning to love and
serve one another is the only answer to the crisis we are here to
transform. This encompasses learning to
love the earth, her animals, plants, and people. It means activating our soul's true purpose. We are at a turning
point in society where we are all being ushered up to the level of the heart.
We are finally at the point where we are learning to release our fear of each
other and to commit to cleaning up the mess we have been creating together for
generations. First we release the shame and fear that binds us to the past,
then the need to blame any one in particular.
We are learning to release the fear, and to process the grief of
watching things and people die, including the grief of who we thought we were.
Then we find ourselves actually discharging the insanity of it all from our
bodies, minds and souls. We then begin to spontaneously and authentically open
our hearts to ourselves and each other.
My desire is to wake up the wake up team, to empower people to
take more action to change the situations they can change in their circles of
influence. I ask myself revealing inspiring, penetrating and
empowering questions to get upgrades in consciousness often.
For Example: How can I better manage my time and
resources to invest them in ways that sustain life on earth for future
generations? How can I make peace out of war? How can I accept more love into
my life? How can I help my self and others to see how beautiful and precious we
all truly are? What would happen if we all were intent in finding out how to
better support each other and ourselves?
Who would we be if our collective goal were to live our lives truly
aligned with a full on YES to our own soul's most loving guidance? The human
soul comes with a built in broadcast of eternal love for the whole of Creation
that we are a part of. We experience this as adults as a sense of awe and
reverence for the beauty of nature, or the beauty we see in little children.
Watch how healthy children love to love. They are unabashed in
appreciation for birds, sky, mud and people. What is good for our children is
good for us. It was once said that to measure the evolution of a culture, look
to see how it has treated its women, children and land. The happier
and healthier these three categories, the more socially, culturally,
spiritually evolved the culture.
I believe the answer to
the question we are being asked is simple and it has always been the same.
A: Love is
the Answer.
Q: What is
the question?
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